Encouragement Confirmation Letter

In memoria di Oriana Fallaci


Eighty years ago was born in Florence Oriana Fallaci, journalist and writer. I like to remember with a track from his Letter to a Child Never Born
'll be a man or a woman?

'll be a man or a woman? I wish you were a woman. I would like you to test one day what I feel: I am not at all agree with my mom who thinks that to be born woman is a disgrace. My mother is very unhappy when he sighs: "Ah, if I was born a man." I know: our world is made by men for men, their dictatorship is so ancient that even extends to language. It tells man to tell men and women, is said to say baby boy and girl, is said to tell his son his son and daughter, says murder to indicate the murder of a man and a woman. In the legends that men have invented to explain life, the first creature is not a woman is a man named Adam. Eva comes after, for fun and mischief. The paintings that adorn their churches, God is a bearded old man, never an old white-haired. And all their heroes are boys; from that Prometheus, who discovered the fire quell'Icaro who tried to fly on to say that this Jesus the son of the Father and the Holy Spirit: as if the woman from whom it was given birth to an incubator or a nurse.
yet, or because of it, being a woman is so fascinating. It 'an adventure that takes such courage, a challenge that does not get bored. You'll have plenty to do if birth women. To begin with, you will to beat to claim that if God exists could also be an old white-haired and pretty. Then you have to beat to explain that sin was not born the day that Eve picked an apple that day was born a great virtue called disobedience. Finally you have to beat to show that inside your body smooth and round there is an intelligence that screams to be heard. Being a mother is not a job. Nor is it a duty. It 's just the right among the many rights. Worked so hard to shout about. And often, almost always lose. But you will not be discouraged. Fighting is much better than winning, traveling is much more fun than to get there: when you arrive or you've won, feel a great emptiness. Yes, I hope Tusia a woman. Do not mind if I call you baby. And I hope you never say what my mother says. I never said I did not.

But if a man be born I will be happy stesso.E perhaps the more because you will be spared many humiliations, so many servants, so many abuses. If a man be born, for example, you will not be afraid of being raped in a dark street. You do not have to serve a pretty face to be accepted at first sight, a beautiful body to hide your bad reviews intelligenza.Non will suffer when you sleep with whoever you like, you will not feel shame to say that was born the day when an apple cogliesti . meno.Potrai beat you sweat a lot more convenient to argue that, if Dio esistesse, potrebbe essere anche una vecchia coi capelli bianchi o una bella ragazza.Potrai disubidire senza venir deriso, amare senza svegliarti una notte con la sensazione di precipitare in un pozzo, difenderti senza finire insultato.Naturalmente ti toccheranno altre schiavitù,altre ingiustizie:neanche per un uomo la vita è facile, sai.Poichè avrai muscoli più saldi, ti chiederanno di portare fardelli più pesi, ti imporranno arbitrarie responsabilità.Poichè avrai la barba, rideranno se tu piangi e perfino se hai bisogno di tenerezza.Poichè avrai una coda davanti ti ordineranno di uccidere o essere ucciso alla guerra ed esigeranno la tua complicità per tramandare la tirannia che istaurarono nelle caverne.Eppure, o proprio For this reason, a man will be equally wonderful adventure: an 'undertaking mai.Almeno I hope will not disappoint you because, if born a man, I hope you become a man as I have always wanted: sweet with the weak, fierce with bullies , generous with someone who loves you, who you comanda.Infine ruthless, enemy than anyone tell children that Jesus is the Father and the Holy Spirit, not the woman who partorì.Bambino I'm trying to explain that being a man means having a tail davanti.Significa persona.E be a first, to me, that you are interested in a persona.E 'a beautiful word, the word person, why does not limit a man or a woman, does not draw boundaries between those who and who has a tail did not have it. Moreover, the wire that divides those who have the queue who did not have it, a thread is so subtle, in practice it reduces the possibility of being able to grow or not a creature in the womb. The heart and the brain does not have sex. Nor does the behavior. If you are a person of heart and brain, remember, I'm not sure I'll be among those instructing you to behave in one way or another as male or female. We ask only to exploit well the miracle of being born, never to give the viltà.E 'a beast that is always lurking, the viltà.Ci bites everyone, every day, and few are those that can not be torn to pieces by lei.In prundenza name in the name of convenience, sometimes the saggezza.Vili until a risk threatens them, humans diventan arrogant after the risk has passed. No need to avoid the risk, never, even if fear stops you. Come into the world is already a rischio.Quello to repent, then, of your coming. "

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My mom, you see, did not want me. I began by accident, in a moment of distraction of others. And why not every night was born a drug dissolved in water. Then the drinking, crying. drank until the evening when I moved inside her belly, and kicks to tell her not to throw away. She was wearing the glass to his lips. Now it away and poured the contents on the ground. A few months later I roll victorious in the sun, and whether this was good or bad I do not know. When I'm happy I think it was good, I'm unhappy when I think it was bad. However, even when they are unhappy, I think I'd hate to not be born because nothing is worse than nothing. I, I repeat, do not fear pain. It comes with us, grow with us, you get used to it as the fact of having two arms and two legs. I, after all, not even fear to die, because if someone dies it means that he was born, that came out of nowhere. I fear nothing, to not be there, having to say there was not, even by accident, even by mistake, even for others distrazione.Molte women are asking, give birth to a son, why? Why is hungry, because they have cold, why is betrayed and offended, because the war killed or die from a disease? And they deny the hope that his hunger is satisfied, that his cold is warmed, the loyalty and respect are the friends who live a long time to try to remove disease and war. Perhaps they are right. But anything is preferable to suffering? I even pauses to cry about my failures, my disappointments, my tortures, I conclude that suffering is preferable to nothing.


Oriana Fallaci, Letter to a Child Never nato.1975

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Accade


... My friend, who knows how many volte tu hai dato il tuo voto, ad un uomo politico così, cioè corrotto, ignorante e stupido, sol perché una volta insediato al posto di potere egli ti poteva garantire una raccomandazione, la promozione ad un concorso, l’assunzione di un tuo parente, una licenza edilizia di sgarro. Così facendo tu e milioni di altri cittadini italiani avete riempito i Consigli Comunali, Provinciali, Regionali ed il Parlamento degli uomini peggiori, spiritualmente più laidi, più disponibili alla truffa civile, più dannosi alla società. Di tutto quello che accade oggi in questa nazione, la prima e maggiore colpa è tua….”

Pippo Fava, giornalista assassinato dalla Mafia

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World Refugee Day today, Calabria gives lecture reception


On 20 June, UN High Commissioner for Refugees (UNHCR) and partner organizations around the world celebrate World Refugee Day this year, UNHCR decided to dedicate the theme "Refugees, not just numbers - real people, real needs". This move that reflects how people are refugees with our own dreams, expectations and needs. Not just numbers or statistics, but individuals and families fleeing war and persecution with real stories who are trying to start a new life in dignity and security.
Access also means making available to the company that welcomes them their experience, skills acquired and the culture of origin.
I want to celebrate this day with the poetry of the poet Cameroon Ndjock Ngan entitled "Prison".
live one life, in one city in one country, in one universe to live in one world is prison
love one friend, one father, one mother, one family, loving one person prison is
Knowing only one language, one job, one costume, one civilization, one logic is known prison
Having one body, one thought, one knowledge, one essence, is to have only one prison .
In Calabria, country who knew in the fifties migration, now you are working slowly to accommodate the Refugees and meaningful experiences are being born with the "country of reception." Countries such as Statues, and Caulonia Stignano in Locri, which were disappearing, populated only by a few elders, now for the will of their leading citizens opened their homes and given hospitality. Only this is the path of integration.
The reception as an opportunity for local development, then. Integration possible, because on a human scale adjusted to the needs of the area. This is the philosophy contained in the measure in terms of reception of asylum seekers, refugees and development sociale, economico e culturale delle comunità locali, approvato dal governo calabrese. A presentare il provvedimento il Governatore Agazio Loiero, il Vicepresidente della giunta regionale Domenico Cersosimo, il portavoce dell’Alto Commissariato delle Nazioni Unite per i Rifugiati (ACNUR) Laura Boldrini, e Gianfranco Schiavone del direttivo nazionale dell’Asgi (Associazione per gli studi giuridici sull’immigrazione). Con questa legge la Calabria si è dotata, prima tra le regioni italiane, di uno strumento che promuove l’accoglienza e l’inserimento dei rifugiati sul territorio coniugandolo allo sviluppo socio-economico delle comunità locali. Il provvedimento è nato, infatti, dalla positiva esperienza dei Comuni Locride: Statues, and Caulonia Stignano where refugees have become a real resource. An integration model jumped to hit the national news last summer when he accepted the Locride desperate appeal that came from Lampedusa, to take charge of the new arrivals, as the reception center of the island was always packed. The goal now is proposed that Calabria is "making the system" model Locride, to give impetus to the implementation throughout the region of direct intervention to get the reception and integration to develop a true integrated regional system host. In fact, the measure funds, resources regionali e comunitarie, i progetti presentati da Comuni, Province, Comunità montane ecc… finalizzati all’inserimento socio-lavorativo dei richiedenti asilo e dei rifugiati, soprattutto nei borghi interessati da fenomeni di spopolamento e da particolari sofferenze socio-economiche. Non solo: la legge sosterrà azioni che favoriscano la conoscenza reciproca tra i popoli, base fondamentale di una convivenza serena. L’esperienza insegna che tutto ciò è possibile se attuato gradualmente e attraverso la strategia dei piccoli numeri, tenendo conto cioè delle esigenze di ciascuna comunità locale. Lo strumento di programmazione degli interventi previsti dalla legge è il Piano regionale, con valenza triennale, che individua for each year, strategies, objectives, lines of intervention, those eligible, the resources and the monitoring system.
tag CALABRIA, immigration, refugees, Cameroonian poet Ndjock Ngan

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The Cooperative Rom stop collecting waste


Occasionally, in this land of the South, a story of rebirth break.
And now, since 1995, the Roma have started a process of inclusion, employment and, as already said in another post, had set up a social cooperative for the collection of bulky waste.
Everything went well until the other day, when the president of the cooperative had to make the announcement of closure. Yes, no more service to Reggio Calabria, the city administration it does not pay.
goes down hard Domenico Modafferi, the president of the coop, who explains: "This cooperation has often required an intervention by the Municipality in order to remedy the grave situation of delayed payments for the activities of waste collection cumbersome, which it managed. The joint enterprise Fata Morgana does not pay the amounts due for eleven months, stating that the responsibility for this situation is determined by the accumulated debts against the City.
The cooperative, despite the considerable difficulties, continued to play the business of waste collection ingombranti, con la determinazione di non privare la città di un servizio necessario a garantirle un aspetto decoroso e di non interrompere un percorso di inserimento sociale che passa attraverso il lavoro quotidiano.
Periodicamente la cooperativa si è rivolta agli uffici competenti per denunciare la situazione, ma tali sollecitazioni non hanno sortito gli effetti auspicati.
Pertanto la cooperativa, non avendo le risorse per ristabilire una condizione di regolarità contributiva, pagare i debiti ai fornitori, alle banche, gli stipendi ai dipendenti, é obbligata ad interrompere il servizio di raccolta dei rifiuti ingombranti a domicilio, su strada e presso l’isola ecologica.
Tale decisione nuoce alla città, che in prossimità Unfortunately, the summer will be damaged by the inevitable abandonment of bulky waste in the streets and next to the bins, but at the same time is a painful setback for civil Roma, thanks to the work, have embarked on a path of daily social integration, that in this way is likely to be abruptly interrupted.
depriving many families of the monthly income and interrupting a useful service and respond to a need in the city, unfortunately, will create the conditions for widespread discontent, however, when the cooperative is unable to find a different and painless solution to the problem. "
Now hopefully after the complaint that the city is awake and asleep quickly because Roma and families can not wait any longer.

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